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Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby VegasJustin » Thu May 10, 2012 12:30 am

On ABC, Obama made history by supporting same sex marriage. Whether or not this was a political move or not, I give Obama credit for doing it. It was only eight years ago that the Republicans used same sex marriage as a wedge issue. Hopefully this announcement brings full equality soon to all couples.


http://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/ ... story.html
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby DCHeather » Thu May 10, 2012 6:38 am

Personally he does. He still wants the states to decide.

http://gma.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/pr ... riage.html

The president stressed that this is a personal position, and that he still supports the concept of states' deciding the issue on their own. But he said he's confident that more Americans will grow comfortable with gays and lesbians getting married, citing his own daughters' comfort with the concept.
Watch Obama Explains Support for Same Sex Marriage
"It's interesting, some of this is also generational," the president continued. "You know when I go to college campuses, sometimes I talk to college Republicans who think that I have terrible policies on the economy, on foreign policy, but are very clear that when it comes to same-sex equality or, you know, sexual orientation, that they believe in equality. They are much more comfortable with it. You know, Malia and Sasha, they have friends whose parents are same-sex couples. There have been times where Michelle and I have been sitting around the dinner table and we're talking about their friends and their parents and Malia and Sasha, it wouldn't dawn on them that somehow their friends' parents would be treated differently. It doesn't make sense to them and, frankly, that's the kind of thing that prompts a change in perspective."
Roberts asked the president whether first lady Michelle Obama was involved in his decision. Obama said she was, and he talked specifically about his own faith.


This one instance where I agree with the President, younger voters are a lot more accepting of gay marriage regardless of political party affiliation. I think it's pretty much just a matter of time before more states allow gay marriage.
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby Clevelandmo » Thu May 10, 2012 7:31 am

VegasJustin wrote:On ABC, Obama made history by supporting same sex marriage. Whether or not this was a political move or not, I give Obama credit for doing it. It was only eight years ago that the Republicans used same sex marriage as a wedge issue. Hopefully this announcement brings full equality soon to all couples.


http://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/ ... story.html


I never doubted he supported it though, did anyone? If he thinks states should decide I'm not sure that's any progress from eight years ago when numerous states had constitutional amendment votes to ban gay marriage. I dont now how it was in other states, but here in Ohio I dont think it was used as a wedge issue because it didnt get enough attention for decent debate. We banned same sex marriage before we knew what hit us. In other words, I thought it was done rather stealthly.

Still I understand your sentiment Justin. It is nice to have the leader of your country come out in support of the cause.
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby VegasJustin » Thu May 10, 2012 10:26 am

I hope the LGBT community continues its push for a plank on the platform supporting this issue on a federal level. I hate when politicians say "I support this, but on a state by state basis". I have a feeling that plank on the Democratic platform will happen though as that community has been relentless in pushing Obama to this point.


I think it's historic, because it's never happened before. There have been congress people and a few governors support this, but I didn't think I would see an entire administration come out in support so soon after 2004. That election was brutal and Rove really went after anybody who was open to civil unions or any kind of rights for gays and it worked as a strategy. It's good to know that times are a changing.
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby Clevelandmo » Thu May 10, 2012 11:10 am

Justin I dont remember it as a wedge issue and I dont remember Rove going after people over it. At least here in Ohio it was kept remarkably quiet as a ballot issue to the public at large, and was specifically marketed to the Christian right. It appeared to be a strategy to get conservatives who might not normally vote out to the polls. And it did indeed work. The gay/lesbian rights supporters hardly had time to campaign against it. There was also the fact that a lot who voted "yes" thought they were voting in support of same sex marriage rather than against it.

For Rove and Bush to use that as a campaign issue would have been stupid. I'm not saying they werent complicit in the strategy of it to get the conservative vote out, but was there really any debate on the issue in the presidential election? I dont remember that, but my memory is not what it used to be. I think the majority of Americans are in favor of gay marriage or at least a civil union. If there ever was a real debate on the issue at the presidential level, I think even more Americans would be in favor. Being against same sex marriage is a pretty difficult position to defend in a serious debate, and it is a cop out to say it is a state issue. It is a civil rights issue.
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby HatterDon » Thu May 10, 2012 11:27 am

A couple of comments:

1. Marriage statutes, like drivers licenses and property taxation, HAS ALWAYS been the purview of the various state governments. That's why the "Constitutional Amendment to Define Marriage as Between a Man and a Woman" never had a legal leg to stand on. It's NOT the job of the national government to make any laws that affect marriage.

2. I think this was less a political ploy than it was an expression of solidarity. People who are concerned about LGBT rights will not -- regardless of whether this statement was forthcoming or not -- vote Republican as a rule. I doubt this statement got the president any more votes than he'd already get. As a matter of tact, this may cause him to lose a lot of support among the very same black ministers who worked so hard on voter registration and "get out the vote" work in 2008. These ministers have always been in the forefront of opposition to same-sex marriage. I'm not saying that they'll urge their parishoners to vote for Romney; I AM saying that they'll be less inclined to strongly support him.

This is a potential vote loser for the president, and I'm glad to see that he took the step.
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby SoCalJoe » Thu May 10, 2012 11:43 am

Have to share the comment from an old high school buddy of mine from FB. that made me laugh;

'Not sure what all the fuss over same sex marriage is about. When I was married I had the same sex over and over and it certainly wasn't worth fighting over'.
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby VegasJustin » Thu May 10, 2012 12:45 pm

That's what I meant Mo. They used it as an issue to get their base out and to possibly suppress some vote for the Democrats in the black community. I remember reading about robocalls in Michigan that were talking about Kerry and gay marriage and they targeted black voters. It was also brought up during a debate where Kerry stupidly brought Cheney's gay daughter into the debate.


Don, I was watching MSNBC last night and Keith Boykin, former Clinton aide, said that "its a pipe dream to think that the first black president will be abandoned by the black community". Not an exact quote, but pretty damn close to it. I agree with him and I think it would be smart for the Democrats to put this issue on their platform because Mo is right, it's going to be incredibly hard for Romney to say that he's against any kind of unions for gay couples.



LOL Joe.
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby MisterF » Thu May 10, 2012 9:10 pm

Long overdue but wonderful news regardless! :clap:
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby pettyfog » Mon May 14, 2012 11:38 am

You know what... It's BULLSHIT!
And I blame the right as much as the left on this particular so called issue. I even blame the Tea Parties {sorry, edited for plurality.. there is no 'Tea Party'..even I screw up!} for not coming out and saying "WDGAF about gay marriage"
You organize a rally for for dual partnership Civil Unions for homo sapien, regardless of gender, color or which is the dominant hand and I'll be right there with ya, screaming for equal partnership rights.
Would cover all domestic living arrangements. Including Brothers, Sisters, brother-sister, or just good BFF's.
Because it should have NOTHING to do with sexual preference. Or even the implication that sexual acts are involved.
The federal government should never have gotten into the marriage sanctioning business in the first place.
I blame the Utah statehood study committees and the freaking IRS.

1. If religious groups want to call homosexuality a sin, that is up to them.
- It's the same as abortion, in that regard. In which I agree with Rome, for the most part.. Or contraception, in which case I'll take up the cudgels against Rome, and before God, to boot.
But the Fed has no business in it.
2. Gayness is indeed condemned in the bible.. same as 'fornication'. And for the same reason.. see 'Baal'.
3 . Sodom and Gomorrah were not destroyed because they were dens of homosexual acts, but because their culture was corrupt and hedonistic. And because they insisted on recognition and participation- Get that? ACCEPTANCE!!!- by those who were chaste and righteous.
Read the actual chapter and verse.

No culture in which hedonism is given free and open reign has ever lasted, they always destroy themselves into anarchy.
That includes EVERY socialist state as well. Blue Laws suddenly 'appear' as if by magic. For the 'Worker Bees', anyway. ;)
Let's go 'all-in' for socialism and just see what happens.

If a Christian preacher does NOT have the right to preach against homosexuality as a sin from his pulpit, saying they may forfeit salvation, without being labeled a hater and homophobic, and yes, you must include the Westboro Baptist Inbreds, in that freedom...
then what will you say about the Muslim preacher across town who advocates for stoning those who are only accused of sodomy?

Time for the hypocrites to 'smell the coffee' as Ann Landers used to say.
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby HatterDon » Tue May 15, 2012 9:51 am

as clear and consise an argument for the separation of church and state as will be heard anywhere.

I think that, just for the moment, some "real conservate" showed up on Pettyfog's keyboard.
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby Clevelandmo » Tue May 15, 2012 11:34 am

HatterDon wrote:as clear and consise an argument for the separation of church and state as will be heard anywhere.

I think that, just for the moment, some "real conservate" showed up on Pettyfog's keyboard.


Yes it was a nice rant, which I much enjoyed.
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Re: Obama Supports Same Sex Marriage

Postby nevzter » Fri May 18, 2012 4:33 pm

Clevelandmo wrote:
HatterDon wrote:as clear and consise an argument for the separation of church and state as will be heard anywhere.

I think that, just for the moment, some "real conservate" showed up on Pettyfog's keyboard.


Yes it was a nice rant, which I much enjoyed.



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